So, how do we move forward?
First, realize that your safety is in your hands. That
means that if you want to continue to wear a mask over your face and gloves to
go grocery shopping, then DO IT. Pack mentality might make you feel funny, (seeing
others without face masks) but your life and peace of mind are worth more than
someone else's opinion.
Secondly, your safety is in your hands. Yes, I wrote
it again. If you walk into a crowded store, don't feel obligated to stay and
shop! There are other places to shop, you don't have to put yourself at risk
because you don't want to feel silly walking out. Don't justify risking your
life by rubbing shoulders with others, just because others are doing it.
Protect Your Life.
Lastly, realize that this virus will become a part of
our lives for quite a while to come. The flu and colds are viruses and we lives
with those, so we'll live with this one. That being said, remember it's highly
contagious so if you need a mask, gloves, or to shop early hours to feel safer,
do so.
The answer is not to give in to fear, but to mitigate
your risk. There's a reason most people don't traverse dark alleys when they
can take safer routes. Be smart with your safety.
Personally, I have immune-compromised family members
and older family members, so likely I'll continue to wear masks and use hand
sanitized so that I can continue to help keep them safe by keeping myself
safer.
It's all about what is best for you and your life
going forward. Taking personal responsibility for your own safety is a uniquely
American privilege. While our government works on a vaccine, we each do our
part by maintaining cleanliness and staying home if we're sick, or wearing a
mask when we go out.
Masking our faces may be a temporary change in our hygienic
behaviors, but if it makes you feel safer in the months to come, then continue
on as you need. If you want to avoid crowded places, it's okay. If you need to
walk away from a crowded store or vacation spot, there is no shame in doing
what's best for you.
Stay well and let's get back to living a robust life.
Mary